Wednesday, September 7, 2011

My Part II Essay for SA: Power to the Filipino People

Poverty has since been haunting this ravaged country when the Spaniards came and colonized. Although Spain was not the only country that had an influence on the Filipino culture but so did the Japanese and Americans. Due the multitude of foreign cultures that has been passed on to the Filipino people, we developed a sense of inferiority that led to several problems. In the fifties, the Philippines was the most envied country but how come we were left behind? Why did we not strive to prove ourselves like Korea did?

As all the other nations entered a new millennium, such innumerable problems of the past have already been instilled into our system. Why our country became stagnant can be associated with several factors deeply rooted to the unsolved problems of the past. There is external interference in Philippine social, economic, political, cultural and religious life. The colonization of the Spaniards, inheriting their social system where the elite purposefully exploit the masses, made us a colony of our own elite. (Fallows) There is a clear gap between the rich and the marginalized in our present day society. The division of the elite from the common people results to a cultural fragmentation. There is no shared identity, therefore, no common action. The individualistic attitude leads to selfishness and lack of sense of responsibility to fellow Filipinos. It is technically, war against every man. (Fallows) The culture problem derives from the failure of nationalism. (Fallows) The failure of nationalism occurs when the elite fails to help the poor people who are also Filipinos. Only when the elite help the common people, will social cohesion be obtained because the more inequality there it, the less there is democracy.

We also inherited the American’s form of government, democracy. As can be clearly seen, we still experience a strong American influence because our form of government and constitution are heavily based on that of the Americans. The Japanese short but traumatic colonization brought about low self-esteem to women and painful torture to men. With all the different cultures from various colonizers, we have integrated them into the Filipino identity. However, exposure to these various cultures have also made the Filipino perplexed on who they truly are as a culture and nation. The confusion that arises from all these diverse cultures is called thought-behavior dynamism. With various cultures here and there, we tend to take our identity for granted and thus, failure to reflect on who we really are is inevitable. And with the colonial mentality, when the culture of the colonizer matter more than your own, we develop an inferiority complex. As stated by Fallows, the American rule only intensified Filipino’s dependence.

Due to several decades of the Philippines as a colony, the Filipino people have evolved into a nation who exhibits colonial mentality, an inferiority complex and a crab mentality. We also ravage our resources, which are non renewable, instead of doing something better with it. (Jose) The underdevelopment of the Philippines is due to the colonization and miseducation. We are the worst self-bashers because we idealize those of others that we become ignorant of our own capabilities. We are capable of rising above but instead we set our standard so low that it is mediocre, the ‘sakto lang’ mentality.

Another crucial problem in our society that was left hanging is that the Philippine culture tries to put Western theories in our development methods when they do not work. At first thought, such integration of foreign methods can be of high value. However, upon careful deliberation, these methods can be value neutral because such Western methods do not seem to apply effectively within our local context. We try to adapt Western ways but not all of them apply to our surrounding. For example, the Philippines have a tropical climate which is best for agriculture. However, Western ways suggests a monoculture, but it did not take into the fact that it should only be in temperate conditions since you leave the crop for a long time. In addition, even then when there is a lot of horticulture done, there is no surplus and it is even less than what meets the need for our dense population. Due to this mismatch between Western and local methods, poverty has evolved drastically into a very sickening messenger of hunger. Thus, despite the abundance of natural resources in our country, there are still many people who are unable to eat three meals a day. Food getting has since been a troublesome issue where many institutions try to provide efficient solutions but failed. Food getting is even affected by our country’s economic status. However, with our colonial mentality and small-scale tendency, we find it hard to contribute to the development of our present economic situation which leads to food scarcity and widespread starvation. The culture of a country is the society’s life support system. Development is fundamentally linked to its culture. Therefore, productive development cannot be attained without addressing social issues in a cultural perspective.

With long-lost problems left unaddressed, another problem arises. Such is inappropriate management. It is undoubtedly true that there exist problems within the policies that are being implemented and not democracy in itself. It is not the democracy that does not work for the Filipino people but it is the policies that need to be improved or properly implemented. Again we try to incorporate imported management theories when they do not apply to our own. Due to our colonial mentality, we tend to forget the most basic values of a nationalistic Filipino; such values are essential to good governance. Thus, generally speaking, most of our leaders have unsatisfactory character. They cannot help if they do not understand our needs. The Filipinos are so bound by family and friends that they often give position of power without regards to their qualifications. (Jose) Let us all remember, however, that we need leaders that are skilled, and have a good sense with humility. Leaders need to have an influence over the larger good, not favoring the elite for example. True leadership is an imperative prerequisite to good governance and proper management.

Consequently, with inappropriate management, a mismatch of Filipino core culture and social norms makes Filipinos unsure of what it really means to be Filipino. Cultural identity is the basic source of social empowerment and if that is taken away from us we would be powerless and lost. Filipinos tend to group themselves and vote as one. Since they vote in groups, the purpose of having an individual vote is lost. With this comes a lack of personal conviction. The bandwagon effect of voting as a group leads to the loss of the Filipino identity because instead of having an individual voice, we conform to social norms resulting to mimicry of images other than our own. The mismatch of different cultures not only suppresses but weakens our cultural roots.

By the weakening of our roots, we do not have a firm understanding of our cultural background. The lack of knowledge about Filipino culture is due to the massive waves of foreign traditions and technologies that overshadow our own culture. The colonial mentality led to our worsening case of submissiveness. We exert so much effort by so many people for so little innovation. (Joaquin) We work best in small scale, and tend to get fixated when we are good at a particular thing. The status quo is our current mentality values social norms more than innovation; we lag behind in the realms of progress and development.

Last but not least, the Filipinos lack pride in being Filipino resulting in the lack of commitment to the nation. Our pride in being Filipino is inseparable to having commitment and excellence. For some reason, the Filipinos all have the mentality that we have already lost and by having already believed that we lost, we truly have lost before we even tried. Our need for the Philippines is to have governance that is culturally-rooted. We need leaders who understand the Filipino psyche. We should not be embarrassed for being Filipinos but rather work together to define ourselves as Filipinos. We need to prove to ourselves that we are capable of rising like Korea did after being colonized and not fall under pressure. We shouldn’t be satisfied with just being mediocre and should shoot for the stars. We should always strive for the betterment of the country in order to eradicate poverty. We make poverty exist therefore we also have the power to ultimately eliminate it, but I think the true question lies on whether we have the courage and will to change ourselves.

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Imperfect View

Before Christ came, we had an imperfect view. Only selected people were thought to have the right to access eternity. But when he came, he made eternity available to all. (Matt. 5:3) The "feel-good" teaching is like the "Hallmark Card" teaching, it's never about the bad. You can't separate the good from the bad.

Kingdom of God is in the breaking of Christ into the world. (John 3:16-17)

Agape -> each other (like in the Kingdom of God)
Eros -> God

Is the Kingdom of God that same as Heaven?
How do we know Jesus Christ was brought down from the Kingdom of God?
He told the disciples in the Last Supper about the Kingdom of God and how we can't fully establish what it is until we get there. Example, the color green, is it really green or are we referring to an idea of green. We can never know the truth because you have ideas in your head, you have no reality.

William Craig said that maybe our brain were fed by scientists. Can't tell if it's there because our eyes might be deceiving us. We take for granted reality.

How can you truly know someone? Is it the idea or person you love? How can you know who you're saying love to?
If they are ideas or concepts, they are open to question. How to approach truth? For example, Justin goes out on a blind date with Gina. And when they've been dating for a long time there is a family reunion and meets Gina's cousin, Karen who has her characteristics but squared. Who will you choose? Gina pa din but why? Highest form of language is poetry. If you were truly in love, it would be easier to make metaphors because she has 'touched' you. Has to be initiated from an other.

Is truth absolute or asymptotic? If it is absolute, it can always be questioned. But asymptotic means it can't be questioned as a certain point like love. Truth is a person. You are changed because of a person, and in religion it is called conversion. 'Where have you been all my life?' To truly love someone with all your heart, you must lose pride and have humility.

I Love You Like A Love Song, my Dear.

Flow and Kapit

You know the saying when you empty your mind, that's when you really focus? Well, flow is like in martial arts. Don't hold on to something, let it go. The mentality of the child is that they can let go easily. "Kids say the darnest things." When the technique of something is integrated into you, you just work with it, you don't have to think about the technicals of the skill but you just do it. On a first date, it tends to mess up because we are self conscious and hang on to our own image.

Despair is a son because you know God loves you, but you still don't have the flow. Think about the song, "Jesus Take the Wheel" by Carrie Underwood.

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Kingdom of God

If you know that there is a better life, we try to strive for that better life. However, once we do reach that better life, there will always be a better one on top of that.

It's the law of diminishing returns again. Eternity does not equal to immortality. Heaven is just is, it is ineffable.

Death. When we're grieving, we shouldn't grieve for the dead person but for ourselves because we should envy the person, who is now outside our situation and is in a happier place. People try to attempt to live longer and we're so concerned by it.

God said, "What does it profit you if you gain the whole world but lose your own soul?" (Mark 8:36) If you think about, God is a businessman and our religion is a business transaction. We focus on the profits of Christianity. Do we want to go to heaven? Of course! Is it worth it? Yes!

"Pearl of Great Price"
Everything I have < pearl
*shouldn't be able to afford the pearl
*the fact he has a pearl, that's worth more than everything he has
profit -> eternity, something we can't afford

Mother Teresa took care of a lot of lepers and an Indian businessman asked her why is she doing it. If she paid him a million dollars, he still wouldn't do it. Mother Teresa said that same thing. She knows God can pay more. A businessman takes the opportunity. What will if profit for man? Everything! Eternity! (Mark 8:36)

Gloria Dei Vivens Homo! God is man fully alive!

You won't understand it unless you reach it. Why do we do this? "Yeah, you bleed just to know you're alive." (Iris - Goo Goo Dolls)

Our images of perfection for heaven can be more beautiful and you can add to it. When you're dependent on something, it means you've got nothing else better to do.

Like being dependent on TV series. TV series escapes us from reality. In soap operas, don't have to see to follow the story because housewives have to do work and listen instead to make the work bearable.

Greater good vs. Common good? Common means everyone has access but greater is exclusive. Perfect world would be a utopia. The antichrist believed that we could build the city of God.

Kingdom of God
What is it? "Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you. Alleluia."

Earthly king - tries to prevent wars by forming peace with other nations
God - doesn't force anything and rules by love

Agape- what gospel wants 100% love
Eros - desire something because we lack that something, complete me.

Unconditional love is when I just love you (period).
Eros is I love you because....

We must first have eros to be attracted to another person. When we marry, we are promising to truly love the person. But can you truly love 100% without eros? Yes, we can be agape but we are programmed to be eros. Now, who do we love like eros? If you love someone, it's like whole new world, birds are chirping, the sun is bright etc. You can go out of your way for them and it becomes easy.

Ideal -> Libog -> eros, Our love should be directed to who is most desirable. Eros should be directed to God because if we direct it to another person other than God, then you are only loving your self, you are desiring her for your own love.

When you fall in love with another person, we are attracted to an ideal, educated, cultural, advanced civilization. We should not direct eros to another being other than God because then we would be only using the person as a tool for your own desire and satisfaction. If we love God, it is easier to love. If a bad person is with another person who reflects Christ, it would be hard for them to get along.

We should have eros in Christ, so we love like Christ. Agape -> is directed eros to a person, when we want to make the person happy. :)

Psychosocial Development

Oral: trust vs. mistrust
Anal/Urethral: autonomy vs. shame/doubt
Phallic: initiative vs. guilt
Latency: industry vs. inferiority
Genital:
>identity vs. confusion/diffusion (puberty)
>intimacy vs. isolation (20-30 yrs old, marriage/intimate)
>generativity vs. stagnation (3-50 yrs old, parenting or be self absorbed)
>integrity vs. despair (old age, fulfilled in life or lots of regrets)

It is a polarity, two extremes, the positive and the negative. We keep talking how we need homeostasis or balance during a crisis. Being overgratified can lead to fixation while as being deprived can lead to needs. We need to overcome crisis or it will lead to a problem that can be long term.

How does our quality of relationship affect us?
Oral: infant-mother
Anal: toilet training, babyhood-caregiver
Phallic: early childhood, 3 yr old girl-boy are capable of exploring the world, they can think and ask lots of questions but they can also be punished and that's where the formation of the superego comes in (guilt)
Latency: late childhood, experimentation
Genital: puberty, adolescence

In the womb, everything was provided for in the umbilical cord, didn't need to breath or else it would drown in the womb as well as the condition was constant.

Infancy most traumatic because the first two weeks there are radical adjusments to environment around him. The temperature, radical changes around him made the infant very vulnerable.

Ego inflation is when the infant can trust the mother, and then can trust the world. Paranoia is an all about me personality, delusions of grandure = Jesus Christ, messianic complex. Physiological need, provide for the child. When a child cries it means it needs to be fed. It is considered over gratification if the child is fed in less than 5 seconds. By delayed gratification, the child can learn that he is a separate entity from the world that it's not all about him and will have ego deflation.

Erikson had a term oral pessimism, people who had a pessimistic view of the world and of one's self. There is also oral sadistic - who is against the world and one's self.

Stages of Development

Oral:
Birth to 1 year
1st 6 months - eros/pleasure -> breastfeeding
2nd 6 months - thanatos/aggression -> teething

Anal:
2-3 years old
teaches rule of civilization, "will power", become more independent and they can walk/stand on their own, sense of discipline
*the fusion of oral and anal is a person who likes to talk dirty

Urethral Phase (not a stage):
3 years old
to pee or not to pee, development of ambition and pride which is more directed to men, it is incorporated to anal

Phallic:
3-6 years old
son loves mother, sees father as rival
daughter loves father, sees mother as rival
they reduce to seduction, oedipus/elektra complex

Latency:
7 years old
repression of sexuality
sexual drives, motive are 'gone'
there are gender wars
can't beat father, be like father
can't beat mother, be like father
*marry someone who is like your father - substitution

Genital:
13 years old
sexual feelings cannot be ignored

Defense Mechanisms

Defense mechanisms are the ego's way of coping with stress from the id, superego as well as the external reality. It's what keeps the 'self' intact. Our defense mechanisms have to be temporary because if we use it too much, it may lead to maladaptive behavior such as:

>distortions in reality
>fantasies
>disruptions in reality testing, i.e. paranoia, hallucinations
>neurosis
>psychosis

Neurosis vs. Psychosis
>neurosis is when the ego boundary is so thick that nothing can come out or come in, i.e. neurotic - rigid personality, no emotions
>psychosis is when there are fragmentations in the ego boundary than the person cannot distinguish reality from fantasy, i.e. mother is baby, baby is mother

*We need to understand the story and not just the symptoms on why people are this way.

Forms of Defense Mechanisms:
1. denial - usually conscious, if it is unconscious ask for feedback from friends
2. suppresion - contain our psyche energy, conscious pushing to the unconscious
3. repressed - from here other mechanisms come from, usually periods of very traumatic events in life
4. projection - something in our unconscious that we project to someone else, someone who we usually don't like
5. introjections - the unconscious adoption of the ideas or attitudes of others
6. displacement - substitute it for something less threatening, never show our negative feelings
7. turning against the self - suicide, self mutilation
8. reaction formation - homophobia, rejection into obsession, Cain & Abel Theory
9. undoing - like Lady Macbeth, who killed people and dreamt that she was washing her hands
10. rationalization - form or neuroticism, rigid people
11. intellectualization - form into theories
12. fixation - psychosexual stages, at 7 mother-daughter, father-son bonding most crucial
13. splitting - stomach problems usually anxious, in toilet training we are taught what is clean/not clean, proper/not proper, when we don't have time to decide we split it into good and bad, we move into two extremes because we don't have to effortly understand the situation
14. fantasy - imagination to avoid something traumatic in life, sexually abused children may develop multipersonality and one of them is still a child
15. somatization - four deadliest emotion, psychosomatic, mind over body, it manifests in a physical form, four deadly since it pertains to body parts, stomach (anxiety), heart (angry people), lupus (migraine), something psychological manifesting into physical is like a warning device, if ignored can lead to a medical problem
16. conversion - saw something traumatic, become blind and there would be no medical explanation, function of body organs get stopped even paralyzed, power of the psyche
17. sublimation - healthy defense mechanism
18. humor - very healthy
19. sexualization - when you have stage fright, imagine the crowd in their underwear, sexualize things to make it lighter

*defense mechanisms are supposed to be good but might become maladaptive if overused.